Failure is the quickest way to success. The faster you fail and learn from your failures, the faster you will determine a way to succeed.
Thomas Edison is a classic example. When he was asked if he was discouraged after attempting thousands of times to invent the light bulb, he replied “No, I am thousands of times closer to making it work.” Passion with persistence overcomes the fear of failure.
A recent study made to fail. There were three groups
1. Business people
Each group was given spaghetti, marshmallows and duct tape. The objective was to build the highest structure to hold marshmallows.
They had 15 minutes to discuss among each other and 18 minutes to build. The kids won. The engineers came in at a close second and the business folks came in at a distant last.
Why did kids win over educated, experienced adults? Kids started immediately putting it together, failing over and over, until they got it. The engineers took some time to discuss but then started failing. Meanwhile, the business folks sat around discussing it so by the time they started, it was too late to learn from their mistakes, leaving them far behind.
So perhaps instead of sitting around ad infinitum in a “bored” room with the management teams discussing the annual sales plans, strategic initiatives, sales marketing objectives, competitor’s activities, budgeting proposals, and appeasing the bean counters so no one looks bad - Just Do It!!!
The ability to listen has been proven to build trust, lower sales resistance, build self-esteem and heal. A feeling of trust is the key to long-term customer engagement. But how do you listen? When a customer is speaking, make sure the spotlight is on them, not you.
Questions combined with active listening increases sales and customer retention. Ask questions to clarify the need of the customer. For example: “Do you want a therapeutic or preventative strength natural medicine? Have you been on a cleanse before? Have you used XYZ? Are you on medication?”
These types of questions help you quickly identify an effective choice so the customer is satisfied with results. It also gets the customer speaking, which allows you to listen attentively, creating an energy of trust and respect. With mindful practice to listen better, you will notice positive results in your personal relationships, and in your overall wellbeing.
I understand in today’s high-traffic stores, engaging customers is becoming less and less possible. Yet it is the foundation of our industry – to share the unique benefits of the products we sell.
Look how difficult it is to keep up with all the new products on the market with a wide variety of ingredients from all over the globe. Is it organic, free trade, non-GMO, ethical, gluten-free, grass fed, vegan, paleo, local, etc….
The “interNUT” is full of nonsense on natural heath products which as you know brings in customers with all sorts of ‘ideas’ about natural health. Some sound whacky and some are intentionally created to deceive.
Most stores have well-trained staff with accredited nutritional expertise to help guide the consumer to make a good choice within the ever expanding natural lifestyle movement. Yet sharing knowledge is not the best way to build trust.
The words you use during a conversation with the customer have little effect on building trust or engagement. Some studies suggest only a seven per cent effect. Your tone of voice and body language speak far louder than words of nutritional advice in building long-term customer relationships.
In Whatever Arises Love That by Matt Kahn, he has these loving words on listening: “When human interactions become a way of practicing self-acceptance by treating others with more patience, kindness, and respect, a constant need to be heard drifts into listening as an act of love”.
I believe the business that listens best will become the trusted voice of natural health in the local buying community.